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Excerpt from: “Aunt Jean and Uncle George”, Chapter IV | May 22, 2010

Jean and George at the shore, circa 1953

10/28/11:  Here is a piece from Chapter IV where I am describing my Uncle. 

My uncle George was not Italian, not that this mattered to any of us. In fact, he used to say he was a Heinz 57 variety. He even boasted about having Native American blood running through his veins. But he was sure he had Scottish, English, and Irish ancestors. Even as a youngster, though, I was able to recognize that uncle’s family was different. To me, they were the oddest bunch of people, and I used to make myself disappear whenever they were around. I can say almost certainty that they were the first country–and-western music fans of the northeast. None of my other family members, on either side, listened to that kind of music back then. But Uncle George’s mom and siblings listened to people like Hank Williams, Sr., and Patsy Cline long before country music became the trend. Another odd thing about Uncle George’s family is they all spoke with a southern drawl, including him. Now, not one of his family members was born in the South. They grew up in towns in northern New Jersey, and Jersey people do not speak with a southern drawl. So, some of  Uncle George’s life is a bit of a mystery, and even though I and many of my other family members found his accent odd, we never questioned him about it. We just accepted him and loved him. I loved him like a blood relative. Really, children do not distinguish between blood relatives and in-laws. I think that’s because we always remember them being there. As far as I was concerned, he was no different than my mom’s or dad’s siblings. I think that’s the way it is in every family.


Oh, I need to get this fact out there so as to help paint an even more vivid picture of my Uncle George. Uncle George was an entertaining storyteller and was known to stretch the truth just a tad. When he recounted his version of an event that he may or may not have been directly involved in, he would always add a little too much to the story. Some facts were so outlandish that when he finished telling the story, you would question the accuracy of his statements. But the stories were so fascinating, and most times hysterical, that you couldn’t fault him for using his imagination. You just knew you could only believe part of the story.
Uncle would often tell us outrageous stories from when he was in his teens. He had a few about when he was dating my aunt. He would really get into the story. It didn’t matter the kind of story he told, he would always have a smile on his face. He had a humorous heart and showed it in every one of his stories.
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10/28/2011 - I just finished writing a memoir. It will be in the hands of an editor within the next two weeks. It's a narrative about the time I spent living in New Jersey with my Aunts and Uncles who were the children of Italian immigrants and takes place from 1951 to the present. Although I loved every one of these twenty-five relatives, only seven made it to the book. I call these special seven "The Other Parents". During the spring of 2009 I was diagnosed with eye cancer. But even this and the related six surgeries I underwent couldn’t stop me from doing what I had set out to do that last week in April 2009. Now, I was even more compelled to complete my book. I was driven by a sense of urgency. Since I was an extremely proficient typist, I continued writing my story shortly after the first surgery with only short down-times immediately following each additional surgery. I typed on my computer using one eye while taking full advantage of Arial 16 type font. The story was inside of me, I could have done it with my eyes closed. Writing about these family members was rehabilitating. It was therapeutic, not that this was the only reason I pushed forward with my dream. My main reason for doing it is I had something worth telling and I even felt it was worth hearing. I wanted everyone to know about their strong sense of right and wrong, their compassion and love, their sense of humor; their family loyalty. Although they shared many of the same qualities, I experienced a unique and separate relationship with each one simultaneously during the same time period. Giving them their own story was the only way I thought I could do them justice. To do otherwise would detract from each aunt and uncles’ uniqueness.

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