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About: Aunts and Uncles – The Other Parents | April 26, 2010

Typical B'day Party, circa 1954 -Where are the men?
Typical B’day Party, circa 1954 -Where are the men?

10/28/11:  As you can see from my profile, I have just finished writing a book about my aunts and uncles. 

Discovering one of my mother’s boxes while clearing out my own closet one day triggers the memory of our turbulent mother/daughter relationship and the sad events leading up to her passing. Curious about its contents, I take the box into the room she used while living with us and remove its cover.  Inside I find an envelope containing old family pictures.  Determined to find their images, I search for early photos of my “other parents”. Removing them from the envelope and splaying them out on the floor next to me rouses my earliest recollection of each of them and their remarkable lives. I knew then that I had to tell the world about them.

Within weeks I had my outline. One year later in the spring of 2009 I began to formulate the story you now see here. Most of the information contained within these pages is pre-2006. Writing over the span of nearly three years opened up the opportunity to make a short update concerning my Aunt Sadie and also some additional information about Uncle Mike’s family which I thought you may enjoy hearing. Appropriately, these tidbits make up the last page of this book.

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1 Comment »

  1. Very nice and easy too read.It will be a good book.Opa.

    Comment by Peter kolodziej — May 24, 2010 @ 1:17 pm


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10/28/2011 - I just finished writing a memoir. It will be in the hands of an editor within the next two weeks. It's a narrative about the time I spent living in New Jersey with my Aunts and Uncles who were the children of Italian immigrants and takes place from 1951 to the present. Although I loved every one of these twenty-five relatives, only seven made it to the book. I call these special seven "The Other Parents". During the spring of 2009 I was diagnosed with eye cancer. But even this and the related six surgeries I underwent couldn’t stop me from doing what I had set out to do that last week in April 2009. Now, I was even more compelled to complete my book. I was driven by a sense of urgency. Since I was an extremely proficient typist, I continued writing my story shortly after the first surgery with only short down-times immediately following each additional surgery. I typed on my computer using one eye while taking full advantage of Arial 16 type font. The story was inside of me, I could have done it with my eyes closed. Writing about these family members was rehabilitating. It was therapeutic, not that this was the only reason I pushed forward with my dream. My main reason for doing it is I had something worth telling and I even felt it was worth hearing. I wanted everyone to know about their strong sense of right and wrong, their compassion and love, their sense of humor; their family loyalty. Although they shared many of the same qualities, I experienced a unique and separate relationship with each one simultaneously during the same time period. Giving them their own story was the only way I thought I could do them justice. To do otherwise would detract from each aunt and uncles’ uniqueness.

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